Tuesday, August 30, 2016

"I just wanna give you the loving that you're missing."

People are always making comments about each other. For some reason it's the human condition to pick each other apart. But there are times to comment on a friends fashion sense, facial hair or even hair and sadly many people forget that or say they're just trying to help.

Here's the thing, if your friend/spouse/stranger doesn't ask for advice from you don't fucking give it. It's not your job to call someone out. We all have flaws, we've all wore fucked up outfits and dammit if I want to let my belly hang out a bit--so be it!

You are not in control of anyone but yourself.

You wake up everyday and make the decisions that are best for YOU.

This blog comes from a talk that happened really close to my heart. I was talking with a current boy crush and he mentioned something that his family nagged him about. It actually made him feel really shitty and made him want to change himself because he thought others saw him in the same light.

Being the flirt I am, I reassured him that part of his body was hot as hell but he still insisted on changing.

That's the thing when people start nitpicking at each other those comments really stick with a person. He was so torn up that his family poked fun at a certain area of his body he felt the only way to deal with it was to change himself--change something, something that was naturally happening to his body!

If it's not your fucking body, you have NO permission to comment on it. I don't care how close you are to the person you are, or how much you love them. Let people live, let them be happy in their own skin.

If not, you're a fucking asshole.

And if you know someone having issues--be supportive, show them love. People are shitty, but sometimes just a hug can turn someones day around. Be kind.

Until next time,
Dev

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